What in the world??
My stbxh had his “1st” weekend with our kids after divorce https://onlinedivorcewa.com/legal-separation-washington-state/. The judge said no sleepovers but 4 hours each day with times accommodating his work schedule. They didn’t want to go.
He called me crying and asked me to fix it. I said it’s not my job to fix but would help if he wanted to meet for a coffee or something in public. Nope just yelled and flung insults. I hung up grateful we are done.
At this point, I’m the only one who wants him to be in their lives. Safely. I remember the good times and love. They remember the drinking, abuse, lack of apology, and absence. I don’t want them to be unsafe by any means. They are my world! I do however think having both parents will benefit them.
Do I let this just play out and support the kids? Do I force them to go? Should I be scared of the judge’s perception?
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